House sitting success!

Over the last few weeks Hubby & I have been house sitting for his folks, who have been on holidays over-seas for a month. Their place is only about 15/20 mins from ours so it wasn't a big move, although our suburbs are almost world’s apart :-)

Their home backs onto a national park and they live in a quiet circular street, so as you could imagine the peace and quiet is something we don't get much of, living on a main street with unit buildings all around.

Just look at the beautiful views.

Foggy Mornings

Beautiful sunsets

I must admit at first suggestion of house-sitting, I wasn't 100% sure if I wanted to do it, as I am very much a person who likes to have all my own stuff at hand and although I love holidays, I don’t enjoy living out of a suitcase.

 I was wondering if it would be "too hard" with a toddler, to feel at home... you know they need so much 'Stuff' and I'm a hopeless packer.. lol ... Ryan had suggested we try it out and see how it goes, if I am not happy we can just go home again.. Smart move.

But I'm happy to say that it has been really nice, we did bring quite a bit of stuff, although I kinda brought it over gradually, as I would need something else we could pop home and pick it up.. No issues... which made me feel more comfortable to know if I needed it, I could get it.. Suffice to say after the first week, I went back less & less and was able to adapt happily with what I had. 

Lunch in the sunshine

Enjoying the sun

Carter has been very happy here, there is already enough toys and books to play with, as Nanny has all that for the many visits from Grandchildren ... so I didn't need to bring any toys. We figured it would be good to play with different things and then his toys and books would be exciting again when we eventually went home. 

He has 2 big lounge rooms to run around in, a front and back yard, a large walk in pantry (which he loves) and then there are the stairs!.. 

Oh the Stairs.. He just love Stairs and at first wanted to go up and down ALL the time.. It got a bit tiring following him to make sure he was ok.. So we decided to keep that to a minimum and kept the doors to the stairs closed.

I must admit I always thought I wanted to live in a town house with 2 storey’s and have the extra space upstairs.. BUT being Pregnant I now think.. WHY .. hahaha.. its so much work and makes me tired. If i had to carry him up to bed I have to catch my breath before I can sing him a night time song lol....

The nature & wildlife around here has been lovely too, we were able to take walks up the street and spot the wild bunny rabbits and loads of different birdies.. I've loved watching Carter stop and put his hand to his ear when he hears the birds chirping or the doggies barking.. its very cute.

A little visitor 

Its lovely having a garden to walk around in and not have to even get out of my PJ's if I didn't want to ... heheh.. Yes that happened many times.. At home its a process of us getting dressed, getting the pram out of the garage and heading off to the park for some simple sit in the grass enjoyment... so this has been nice... Also they have a large balcony which gets LOTS OF SUNSHINE.. so we would sit out there and have lunch on many occasions or just look out at the pool and the bush lands...  I'm deff catching up on my lack of Vitamin D here.. THANK YOU!

Looking at the Ants, listening to the birds and Gnome hunting.

So needless to say we have stayed practically the WHOLE time they have been away, which has been a nice break from our flat. Now the whole move back home is a little hard to think about.. well I mean, I am looking forward to going ‘home’ and having all my own stuff, being closer to the things I am used to and for appointments etc... but I can say I will miss having all this space and especially the peace and quiet.. (oh and the heater & dishwasher were a nice luxury)

He was a good little helper

a favourite game, falling into the case

Thank you, its been Fun :-)

xx

A Mothers Day Reflection

Last Sunday was Mother’s day and although I didn't feel the desire to write any thing then, we did make the effort to take some photos to record that day, and were we are in our lives... (plus I had made the effort to do my hair and get dressed so had to make it count right? lol)

Being a mother is something kinda unexplainable to someone who hasn't experienced it before. There are lots of words to describe everything a mother does but how do I explain my own feelings in a clear way?...

Being a mum has its up and downs for sure .. it has joy and times I think I will go crazy hahaha :-)

Now as I am not the most eloquent at writing beautifully (did you like that big word? it popped into my head so figured what the heck I will throw it in haha) ... I found a few quotes I liked from a little book I had been reading and I thought I could use those to explain or at least start to explain some thoughts and feelings I have...

"Mother love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible" 

Like I mentioned in a previous post this is something you don't expect before you become a mother, you don’t really think about it.. but its so true.. You can do more than you ever thought you could & you feel more than you ever imagined.

Which leads onto....

"Being a mother is learning about strengths you didn't know you had, and dealing with fears you didn't know existed.."

Those 2 go hand in hand I believe.

I also liked the one which a lady named Kate Samperi stated,

“Before becoming a mother I had a hundred theories on how to bring up children, 

now I have seven children and one theory, 

LOVE THEM, 

especially when they least deserve to be loved"

I could totally relate to this (not the 7 children part.. YIKES).. but the about having all these ideas in your head before your baby is born, like how you want it to be and how you think you will be. It all pretty much goes out the window when the little bundle of joy is there and has ideas of its own.

I am sure there are some mothers out there who can still make it happen the way they decide, and that is awesome, I have yet to master that, as I am sure are many of you :-)

Now although I don’t believe in letting Carter run the roost, sometimes that is just how it goes to keep the sanity. If he needs a sleep and I don’t NEED to go out, then I will stay and put him to bed.. or plan around a good schedule around him (at least that’s what I am trying)

There is still things I have always wanted to instill in him and I am sure I will, but its definitely a different ball game ones it all comes into play... I guess being prepared and having lots of information and skills before hand will help in the endeavour of being a great mum.

I have recently been caught up on the fact that It is hard to be a "PERFECT MOTHER" and then I saw this quote...

 ..and it reminded me... Yeah that’s right.. Just work at being a GOOD MUM and the rest will come.. if I am always trying to be good.. Surely being Great comes shortly and who knows what after that... I also have to remember there is no "Perfect person" .. so what will make me stand out, to my little boy... The way I love him!...

And I SURELY DO!.. I love him so deeply.

A few weeks after he was born, and it was all starting to hit us, once things had settled down that this little person, this beautiful spirit NEEDED ME.. he couldn’t survive without me and my love & nurturing.. I was SO SPECIAL to him I was his lifeline.. That is something I have never had the privilege to feel before.

I remember one time I was holding him and staring down at him as I often did in awe (not only at the fact I managed to give birth to a 10.6 pound baby with a head full of hair lol..) but that he was so amazing, a little life sent from heaven to Ryan & I.

 I looked into his eyes and for the first Real time he looked into mine.. and just like that it pierced me to my heart and my eyes welled up immediately (as they are now reliving the experience).. I don’t remember all the special moments we have but that one is imprinted in my heart and my mind as one I will NEVER forget.. He knew I was his mummy and we shared a love.

I realise now that "Motherhood is ... never being number one in your list of priorities and not minding at all" ... 

Isn’t that true, our lives turn around from being about what we need.. and becoming about what our baby or family need.

One that made me smile was… "It is not easy being a mother, if it were, fathers would do it" 

Now that is not to put down fathers who do a great job and especially the single dads out there, as my brother would strongly remind me… but lets just have a laugh for a minute.. most dads can’t handle the kids like mum can, while they are little at least... when they get hard.. we mums know what they want.. we spend most of the time with them and we become the book of knowledge... Dads MUM does know best.

“Children are the anchor that hold a mother to life” SOPHOCLES

They are our whole life, and it never changes... not even when they have their own little families I see this with my own mum!  At 77 years of age and me at 34 being the youngest of 6 children, she is still invested in each and every one of us, and will never give up on any of us.


Just to finish of the quotes, one last one for you..


"A baby will make love stronger, 

Days shorter, nights longer,

Bank Balance Smaller, 

Home happier, 

Clothes dirtier,

the past forgotten

and the future worth living for"


Author Unknown.

Mothers Day 2013 / 22 weeks pregnant

Maxi Dress - Old Navy

Exciting news for us to share

Finally I am getting this post written.

Yes we have some exciting news to share and what I didn't mention in my last post is that ....

Baby number 2 is on the way!!!

We are super excited to be expecting another little bundle of joy and although I have gone through a full circle of emotions, I am very excited for Carter to have a little brother or sister and addition to our little family.

Although we have noticed recently, that Carter has been extra clingy with me and not quite as much his happy go lucky little self... At first we thought it was a habit he'd gotten into the last couple of weeks when he was sick and we had to snuggle him all the time... 

but I've heard that often a toddler will sense when mummy is expecting a new baby and they become super sensitive... Has anyone else had experience with this?... got any tips?.. Because his not wanting to sleep on his own is driving me crazy. 

This pregnancy is also different in that last time I was excited and a little scared of the Unknown ... however this time there is a lot of hesitation of the 'KNOWN' .... I didn't really 'enjoy' child birth (who does) or more so the recovery after, so am little nervous about all that... and unlike last pregnancy when I could do practically nothing, just rest, relax and enjoy the benefits of "Being Pregnant"... this time with my demanding beautiful active little boy I am tired, sleep deprived and some days almost forget I am pregnant... until I look down of course and see my HUGE growing belly.. LOL

Oh yeah and when people say, "you pop out quicker second time around' that is an understatement.. I swear people look at me and think, wow not long to go! .. but hello we are only half way there...

I was a little disappointed that we didn't get a clearer scan of baby.. however some cute arms and legs.. Ryan is pleased at the leg muscle definition on our little one hahaha

Any guesses if you think its a Girl or Boy?? ... 

I'll let you know at our next scan.... hopefully :-)

Finding Strength...

This quote has been on my mind over the last few days...

See my little man has been sick this week, very high temperature and not sleeping. I have had to cuddle him practically all night, with short snippets of sleep.. (once he is quiet i can settle onto the couch and relax, but when i try to move him or put him down he wakes up and cry's)... and because I knew he was sick and couldn't help it there was a calmness that came over me, along with this quote which kept repeating in my head.

It made me happy & reassured to know that when I needed it most, and because I couldn't normally do it on my own I was given the strength and comfort i needed to help my baby boy.

See to back up a little.. usually if a day comes around when i cant get carter to sleep during the day, I really struggle with it because i am usually tired, in need of a break and i really want my daily nap.. :-).. I don't deal with it so well & usually poor Ryan receives a stressed out message from me, cause for some reason it helps to vent my frustration. 

So yesterday afternoon which was after the 3rd night in a row of no sleeping, I was thinking to myself.. WOW I am really dealing with this Surprisingly well. 

However last night after getting up for the 3rd time by 2am I pretty much hit a wall!!!  

I knew Carter was on the mend as his temp had come down. I was so tired and sore and just wanted to sleep so bad... I had tried to put off waking Ryan, because he had to work and he already does so much, i didn't want to wake him if i could deal with it... 

I came back to bed at 2.30am after finally settling Carter into his bed and as I laid down I felt a gentle hand on my back and a quite voice, "are you ok?" ... No i said, ... My hubby simply said "let me take the next one, you get some rest" 

I was so grateful for his understanding and gentleness.  

I was so tired.

I heard Carter wake up not long later, Ryan quickly got up and attended to him. All went silent and I fell off into sleep mode.. it felt soo good.

luckily for Ryan, he only had to give carter a bottle and there is a calmness about his nature that seems to settle Carter quickly when I cant (we each have our times i guess)... After that we all slept through until 6.30/7 which was GREAT considering that last few days. 

We were also blessed to have a lovely friend drop over a meal for us which was an added bonus and a huge help too. 

Its been a long week, but also an enlightening one which for me is a good thing.. I need to try focus on seeing the positives in each day a lot more.

Today I'm so grateful for my beautiful baby boy and my wonderful Husband.

Hoping for a full nights sleep tonight... 

Good Night all!

 xo